My favourite book has fallen apart, it's a sad day

Yes, RIP my most beloved copy of The Fellowship of the Ring by JRR Tolkien.

Although it has been threatening to do this for quite some time, today a whole chunk of pages officially fell out of the book. Just goes to show how many times I have read this book over and over again. I feel like it's a really good friend, and now it has fallen apart far too early in it's life.

I have tried everything to hold it together. Well. If sticky tape is everything.

But to no avail.

Truth be told, I may be being a bit dramatic at the moment. I could still read it technically, but I can just see the pages coming loose from the section of the book that has fallen out, then I will start losing pages and it will be all over.

It's part of a matching trilogy set too, so to replace it I will need to find an exact replica so that it matches the other two books. But right now, replacing my wonderful book seems like a painful thing to do.

How do you feel when one of your favourites finally falls apart? Do you replace it as soon as you can or hang on to it for as long as you can?

Review: One Day by David Nicholls

One Day by David Nicholls explores the heart of friendship and what it means to really love someone and it is one of the most compelling reads I have had in many months.

The premise of the book is fairly simple. It is about Emma Morley and Dexter Mayhew, two university graduates, whom we meet on the night of their graduation. Emma is a down-to-earth lefty girl from northern England who is keen to change the world. Dexter on the other hand is from a posh, rich family and is only interested in girls, and later, fame. Despite their differences, on the night of their graduation they form a strong and lasting friendship, bordering on a romance.

Every July 15 the reader is given an update on what is occurring in the lives of the two main protagonists over the next twenty years. We see them grow up, grow together and grow apart. It is clear, however, that no matter what is happening in each of their lives, their love for each other draws them to each other over and over again.

Although you only see a glimpse of their lives on one day of each year, it doesn't feel as though you are missing out. Nicholls is able to weave their past year into that one day so effectively you barely notice that it's happening. The only place where I feel this wasn't done so effectively was in the last few chapters of the book, following a cataclysmic event that irrevocably changes the lives of both Emma and Dexter. In these final chapters, I wanted more than I got.

I do think that Nicholls took a risk in One Day in that both of the protagonists felt incredibly stereotypical. Emma Morley was the stereotypical middle class university educated lefty who is determined to change the world, even if she only changes the part around her. Dexter Mayhew on the other hand is the stereotypical upper class male. Apolitical and out for a good time, his greatest priorities are fame, girls and drugs.

The risk in having two such stereotypical characters is that the reader has trouble believing in their authenticity. In my experience, people rarely fall so easily into stereotypes like these.

Despite this though, Emma and Dexter both felt acutely real to me, as did their friendship. You could identify with their lives and their feelings, even as they each changed. Even if you have never felt what they have, you have seen it in other people and so it makes more real in these fictional characters.

Also, their story was endearing. No matter where their lives took them, they were there for one another. There was no one else in the world that they wanted to share things with as much as each other. They enjoyed flirting. They enjoyed the comfort they found in one another. They enjoyed each other.

What more can you want from friendship?

Yes, One Day book is chick-lit, but it also provides so much more than what you might expect from a book of this genre. The writing is witty and in it Nicholls explores the heart of friendship and what it means to really love someone.




7.5 / 8
Brilliant, couldn't put it down. Everyone should read it - it is totally amazing.

Have you read this or have you let the hype turn you off it? I would love to know whether you loved it as much as I did if you read it - I would especially like to know if you think it's an accurate representation of what friendship between a man and a woman can be like.